大學如何擺脫單身英語文章

Ⅰ 如何快速擺脫單身

對於單身的朋友們，看到大街上的情侶們都很羨慕，下面我從男生跟女生兩個角度來說一下如何快速擺脫單身。
男生角度:
第一，改變自己外在形象，換一個適合自己臉型的發型，如果你的臉比較小的話去專業理發店就燙個卷，如果臉比較大一點就去弄一個心形發型，比較遮擋臉的，還有一種就是子彈發型，這個發型很吸引女生，衣著也要有點時尚的感覺，不要覺得隨便穿一件衣服自己就很好看，這樣活該你單身。
第二個原因，撩妹技能，無論是參加各種聚會還是各種活動，都要有一份熱情服務的態度，多為女性朋友著想，讓女性朋友優先，給她們留下很好的第一印象，如果端莊紳士的你就算不問別人留下聯系方式也會有人來找你留聯系方式的。
要會在一群女生裡面選擇一個適合自己的女生，從衣著談吐細節方面來了解這個女生，確定女生單身，之後就去想辦法搭訕，然後留下聯系方式，找話題聊天然後慢慢發展就好了。女生角度:
第一，學會化妝，一個女生無論再怎麼好看都要學會化妝，化妝可以使女生變得更加有魅力，然後要會穿衣服，小清新的風格特別受到男生的喜歡。
第二，給對方一個機會，很多女生都會遇到那個追自己的男生，不要很堅決的拒絕對方，給對方一些時間，你試著去了解一下這個男生，說不準就是合適你的人，很多人都因為一時沖動而失去一份很美好的愛情，我大學舍友當初就是拒絕跟高一屆的學長在一起，後來後悔了，可惜已經晚了。
第三，不要故作矜持了，該主動的時候就要去主動爭取，喜歡這個男生就去找他跟他聊天，時間長瞭然後突然不聯系他幾天，保准他乖乖的來找你，然後反攻為守，等著他來告白吧。

Ⅱ 求關於SINGLE單身的英語文章，長度不限

Single V.S. Married

SINGLE
* 1. Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be.
* 2. Single gives you space to grow. It is harder to grow when you are too close to someone.
* 3. Single means learning to live by yourself.
* 4. Single means freedom.
* 5. Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful.
* 6. Single is realizing that being married is not necessarily better.
* 7. Single means that there could be something wonderful around
the corner and you can take advantage of it.
* 8. Single means you are free to love again.
* 9. Single means you have more time to care for other people.
* 10. Single means you can be a good aunt/uncle.

MARRIAGE
* 1. Marriage is not a word, but a sentence. (Life sentence)
* 2. Marriage is very much like a violin, after the sweet music is over, the strings are attached.
* 3. Marriage is love, love is blind. Therefore marriage is an institution for the blind.
* 4. Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's and the woman gets her asters.
* 5. Marriage is a thing which puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes.
* 6. Marriage Certificate is just another name for a work permit.
* 7. Marriage is not just having a wife but also inherited worries forever.
* 8. Marriage requires a man to purchase 4 types of "Ring" - engagement ring, wedding ring, suffe-ring and en-ring.
* 9. Marriage life is full of excitement and frustration.
* In the first year, the man speaks and the woman listens.
* In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
* And in the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
* 10. It is true that love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener.
* 11. Getting married is very much like going to the restaurant with friends. You ordered what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wished you had ordered that.
*12. It's true, all men are born free and equal some of them get married.
*13. There was this man who muttered a few words in church and found himself married. A year later, he muttered something in his sleep and found himself divorced.
*14. A happy marriage is a matter of giving and taking, the husband gives and the wife takes.
* 15. Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock.
* 16. They say that when a man holds a woman's and before marriage. It is love. After marriage is self-defense.
* 17. When a newly married man looks happy, we know why.
But when a ten year married man looks happy, we wonder why.

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Single or married - for better or worse?
by Viv Griskop
As more of us are avoiding marriage, divorcing or choosing to live alone, Viv Groskop asks whether one state is really better than the other

Ever since the Bridget Jones phenomenon catapulted single life into the British mainstream, the single vs couple debate has raged. Numerous surveys and reports have been carried out to prove that singles are happier, or that couples have a longer life expectancy. And now that uncovering the secrets of human happiness has become one of the key agendas for psychologists and governments, research budgets are increasing.

In 2004 there were seven million people living alone in Britain, nearly four times as many as in 1961, according to relationship research organisation One Plus One. And, as Barbara Feldon pointed out in her bestselling book 'Living Alone and Loving It', there are tens of millions of people living alone in the world, many more than are living in nuclear families. As cultural perceptions shift, so do our expectations of coupledom and solitude. Meanwhile, as divorce rates rise, and the two-parent family declines, the traditional view of marriage as the most desirable state has been thrown into question.

The positive outcome? Being single and proud has finally been accepted as a viable life choice. The downside is that many of us feel more confused than ever. On the one hand there is the idealised life of the carefree, independent woman, yet we still grow up conditioned by fairytales, classic novels and Hollywood movies to believe that 'happy ever after' means happily married. So is there an answer to this uniquely modern debate? Which is better for your long-term happiness and mental health, being single or being part of a couple?

For Rachel, 47, a teacher from Nottingham whose 12-year marriage ended in 2000, the benefits of being single are obvious. 'I'm much happier when I'm independent. I can make my own decisions, I don't have to compromise: I can go on a last-minute weekend to Paris with friends, or decide to leave my job tomorrow and travel around India. I don't have to answer to anyone.'

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Certainly, research suggests that single women enjoy themselves and cope better psychologically than single men. Some of the most recent research, carried out in 2004 by the University of London and published in 'The Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health', surveyed 4,000 men and women under the age of 65. It concluded that women who remain single throughout most of their lives display good mental health compared to married women, while the happiness gap between single and married men is much more pronounced. Yet women were more adversely affected by moving in and out of several relationships, leading some researchers to speculate that single women are happiest if they stay single, rather than if they have many short-term relationships.

However, the majority of research has found that, for both men and women, the most beneficial state in terms of physical and psychological wellbeing, financial gain and longevity, is marriage. A recent survey by Professor Andrew Oswald, who has written widely on the 'economics of happiness', likened the benefits of marriage on our mental health to the equivalent of an annual cash injection of ?0,000. In terms of our physical health, he says, it gives as much of a boost as giving up smoking. His 2005 study on the subject concluded that those who are married earn more than single people, have better physical and psychological health, better longevity and reported happiness.

It would seem that the love, security and unconditional support of a long-term relationship is good for us. Nattavudh Powdthavee of the University of Warwick surveyed more than 9,000 people this year as part of the British Household Panel Survey, and concluded that there is also some sort of 'happiness by osmosis' in married relationships: 'When our partner becomes happier through something that does not affect our own happiness directly (a good day at work, for example), then we also become happier too (merely because he is happier with his life). The effects do not seem to vary with age or gender.'

The majority of research has found that, for both men and women, the most beneficial state in terms of physical and psychological wellbeing, financial gain and longevity, is marriage However, both of these studies found that cohabiting couples do not seem to reap the same benefits as married couples. One theory is that optimistic people tend to marry ?people who would have better physical and psychological health anyway. Another is that the difference lies in the tangible security offered by a marriage certificate.

But, according to Brett Kahr, a psychotherapist at the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships, researchers are missing the point when they focus on your significant other as the source of happiness and mental wellbeing. In fact, he argues, it wouldn't matter if it was a number of significant others ?what we need to be happy is that sense of security. 'We all have an inherent need for attachment,' he explains. 'We need people to take an interest in us, to look after us and to keep us in mind.' We need to feel we are the most important person to at least one other person. And what research is now hoping to uncover, he says, is whether single people can get the same level of attachment from a close friend, or group of friends, as a couple can get from each other.

For Kahr, what is important is not your outer state ?married or single ?but 'the kind of images, role models and internal figures you have in your head'. If these are positive and well-balanced representations of relationships, friendships and the other people in your life, you are more likely to be a happy person, regardless of whether you are married or not. If you carry contradictory, self-deprecating messages in your head ?'My parents divorced, therefore all marriages fail' or 'My partner gives me security, but I can't live without him' ?then you are more likely to be unhappy.

The important thing is not whether you actually possess what psychologists call a 'central relationship', but how healthily you relate to that person, or to being single, in your own mind. Kahr argues that it is possible to feel alone in a marriage, and fulfilled when single: neither the state of togetherness or that of solitude guarantees happiness. How you interpret the situation is key.

Susannah, a 36-year-old jeweller, says her friends would call her 'happily married', but admits that she doesn't always feel that way. 'When my husband is around I feel like we're a contented, secure couple. But he goes away on business for weeks on end, leaving me feeling frustrated and lonely. Sometimes I wonder whether the good times outweigh the bad.'

Janet Reibstein, psychologist and author of 'The Best Kept Secret: Men and Women's Stories of Lasting Love' (?2.99, Bloomsbury), says the positive thing about relationships is that they tend to give us a safe base from which to explore the rest of the world. Single people usually don't have this, she argues. When they do ?by cultivating a select network of friends ?it is a real fight for them to maintain the secure structure that automatically exists in a stable couple: 'I think single people can create substitute situations, but they have to work at it constantly.'

This does not mean, however, that all people in relationships are by definition happier than singles. 'We don't want to get down to a simplistic equation where we are saying that being in a couple is better than not being in one,' says Reibstein. 'Because being in the wrong couple can destroy your sense of security, especially if you're in a frustrating relationship where you are always seeking and not getting.'

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This is where we come down to the happiness hierarchy: asking whether we're better off in a couple or single is a bit like asking whether a mother is the best person to look after a child, says Reibstein. Of course the optimum carer for a child is its mother (just as relationships are the optimum state for humans). But this doesn't mean that the child wouldn't be equally well looked after by other carers (singles have just as many chances at happiness, providing they create strong networks of support that imitate partnership).

If we are going to play good, better, best: a happy partnership (and, in fact, the socially recognised form of marriage) is statistically best, but happy singledom can be equally fulfilling. Next comes miserable singledom. But the worst condition, it seems, is an unhappy relationship.

Ultimately, the experts agree, mental wellbeing comes down to your attitude to life, which may be influenced by your marital status (or lack thereof), but is not exclusively defined by it. If you tend to assume that the grass is always greener ?if you're married and envy your single friends, for example, then you're less likely to be satisfied. 'If you are settled, you do not have anxieties about your own deficiencies, as you might if you were unhappily single, or as you might about someone else's deficiences, in an unhappy relationship,' says Reibstein.

A key psychological definition of happiness is a willingness to explore life, to maintain curiosity and be alive to new experiences. While single life allows greater freedom to do this, a long-term, doubt-free relationship gives many people a level of confidence and openness to life they may otherwise lack. Each state has its unique benefits, so perhaps even asking the question of who is happier ?therefore dwelling on what lies on the other side of the fence ?makes us less happy. Perhaps we should focus not on what we lack, but on what we can gain from the situation we find ourselves in.

Ⅲ 怎樣擺脫單身

我覺得吧一伴蠻出色的

Ⅳ 大學畢業之後怎麼才能擺脫單身

平常心，你什麼也不缺，你能跟她們上同一所大學，就是證明

Ⅳ 急求一篇用比較手法寫的關於單身和結婚的好處英語短文,大概高中水平就OK，希望各位高手幫忙，萬分感謝!!!

the best way to be single is you will have such freedom.(單身最大的好處是自由）
and the good thing of marriage is you are not along anymore, there are always have some one stay with you and so close to you. （結婚的好處在於你從此不再孤單，總是有一個人在你身邊並如此的貼近你）
自己寫的，希望有用

Ⅵ 怎麼擺脫單身怎麼脫單最快

在如今這個擇偶標准迅速攀高的年代，不少年輕人或是止步於戀愛的巨大物資投入，或是畏懼於婚後生活的乏味與枷鎖；最終使得他們放棄競爭和追求，變得安逸於自由獨身的現狀。止步不前不會解決問題，今天我就將向大家分享脫離單身的一些經驗，希望可以讓你重燃對於美好愛情的嚮往。
正視自我，首先，我建議大家先對自己發問，自己是否真正的渴望愛情，亦或是把戀愛當成一種任務，甚至是滿足慾望的游戲；如果是的話，自己又因為什麼原因一直處於單身的狀態；是因為金錢、家庭還是性格；自我審視是擺脫單身的第一步，我們首先要對自己的大致情況有一個基本的認知。因為愛情不是游戲，一旦脫離單身，就意味著你需要對另一方負責，你需要明白自己有哪些資源可以為你們兩人關系進一步發展所用，哪些會成為你們之間的阻礙；做好思想准備能更好的為你擺脫單身服務。
培養自信心，大多數年輕人不想主動脫離單身的一大原因就是因為種種因素認為自己喪失了擇偶競爭力；然而事實並非如此，他們太過於低估自己的能力，這一切根本原因就是因為自信心的喪失。一定要克服自悲的心態，不要過度的放大自己的劣勢和痛苦，嘗試顯露出自身自信和開朗的一面，總體上給人以一個善於溝通、為人處事自信大方的形象，對於脫離單身會有很大的幫助。

Ⅶ 如何擺脫大學期間單身帶來的寂寞

要麼好好學習多讀書充實自己 要麼找個男朋友或女朋友擺脫單身 再不然就是認識更多朋友豐富自己的生活

Ⅷ 對於單身的人來講，應該怎麼脫離單身呢

到了結婚論嫁的年齡，如何脫單也就是成了某些年輕人的主要目標。那麼如何脫單，用什麼方式比較好呢？為了幫助大家能夠過上幸福的生活，小編就自己的經驗為大家介紹一些方法。

第三點，要專一，這一點其實是非常重要的，盡管大家都是在選擇，但是如果一旦找到適合自己的，就不要三心二意，繼續的挑挑揀揀。因為，這個社會你會發現，總是會有比你現在更好的存在，也就是一山還比一山高。最後，你也許會一直挑下去。最終，在追逐中走到孤獨終老。另外，尤其是女孩子，都是對專一的人，情有獨鍾。俗話說得好「好女怕纏郎」，說的其實就是專一性。「非你不去，非他不嫁」這句誓言在感情的世界裡可以直擊心扉。

以上介紹，就是小編為大家介紹的如何擺脫單身的方法，希望能夠幫助大家早日走向婚姻的殿堂。共同為人類的繁榮做出貢獻。

Ⅸ 怎麼擺脫單身🐶

最高的境界是，不要去追人，要讓人來追你！也就是說讓自己變得有吸引力！
自信！有魅力，懂化點淡妝，穿衣服有氣質，辦事利索，樂於助人！等等，有問題不懂電聊！