大学如何摆脱单身英语文章

Ⅰ 如何快速摆脱单身

对于单身的朋友们，看到大街上的情侣们都很羡慕，下面我从男生跟女生两个角度来说一下如何快速摆脱单身。
男生角度:
第一，改变自己外在形象，换一个适合自己脸型的发型，如果你的脸比较小的话去专业理发店就烫个卷，如果脸比较大一点就去弄一个心形发型，比较遮挡脸的，还有一种就是子弹发型，这个发型很吸引女生，衣着也要有点时尚的感觉，不要觉得随便穿一件衣服自己就很好看，这样活该你单身。
第二个原因，撩妹技能，无论是参加各种聚会还是各种活动，都要有一份热情服务的态度，多为女性朋友着想，让女性朋友优先，给她们留下很好的第一印象，如果端庄绅士的你就算不问别人留下联系方式也会有人来找你留联系方式的。
要会在一群女生里面选择一个适合自己的女生，从衣着谈吐细节方面来了解这个女生，确定女生单身，之后就去想办法搭讪，然后留下联系方式，找话题聊天然后慢慢发展就好了。女生角度:
第一，学会化妆，一个女生无论再怎么好看都要学会化妆，化妆可以使女生变得更加有魅力，然后要会穿衣服，小清新的风格特别受到男生的喜欢。
第二，给对方一个机会，很多女生都会遇到那个追自己的男生，不要很坚决的拒绝对方，给对方一些时间，你试着去了解一下这个男生，说不准就是合适你的人，很多人都因为一时冲动而失去一份很美好的爱情，我大学舍友当初就是拒绝跟高一届的学长在一起，后来后悔了，可惜已经晚了。
第三，不要故作矜持了，该主动的时候就要去主动争取，喜欢这个男生就去找他跟他聊天，时间长了然后突然不联系他几天，保准他乖乖的来找你，然后反攻为守，等着他来告白吧。

Ⅱ 求关于SINGLE单身的英语文章，长度不限

Single V.S. Married

SINGLE
* 1. Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be.
* 2. Single gives you space to grow. It is harder to grow when you are too close to someone.
* 3. Single means learning to live by yourself.
* 4. Single means freedom.
* 5. Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful.
* 6. Single is realizing that being married is not necessarily better.
* 7. Single means that there could be something wonderful around
the corner and you can take advantage of it.
* 8. Single means you are free to love again.
* 9. Single means you have more time to care for other people.
* 10. Single means you can be a good aunt/uncle.

MARRIAGE
* 1. Marriage is not a word, but a sentence. (Life sentence)
* 2. Marriage is very much like a violin, after the sweet music is over, the strings are attached.
* 3. Marriage is love, love is blind. Therefore marriage is an institution for the blind.
* 4. Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's and the woman gets her asters.
* 5. Marriage is a thing which puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes.
* 6. Marriage Certificate is just another name for a work permit.
* 7. Marriage is not just having a wife but also inherited worries forever.
* 8. Marriage requires a man to purchase 4 types of "Ring" - engagement ring, wedding ring, suffe-ring and en-ring.
* 9. Marriage life is full of excitement and frustration.
* In the first year, the man speaks and the woman listens.
* In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
* And in the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
* 10. It is true that love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener.
* 11. Getting married is very much like going to the restaurant with friends. You ordered what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wished you had ordered that.
*12. It's true, all men are born free and equal some of them get married.
*13. There was this man who muttered a few words in church and found himself married. A year later, he muttered something in his sleep and found himself divorced.
*14. A happy marriage is a matter of giving and taking, the husband gives and the wife takes.
* 15. Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock.
* 16. They say that when a man holds a woman's and before marriage. It is love. After marriage is self-defense.
* 17. When a newly married man looks happy, we know why.
But when a ten year married man looks happy, we wonder why.

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Single or married - for better or worse?
by Viv Griskop
As more of us are avoiding marriage, divorcing or choosing to live alone, Viv Groskop asks whether one state is really better than the other

Ever since the Bridget Jones phenomenon catapulted single life into the British mainstream, the single vs couple debate has raged. Numerous surveys and reports have been carried out to prove that singles are happier, or that couples have a longer life expectancy. And now that uncovering the secrets of human happiness has become one of the key agendas for psychologists and governments, research budgets are increasing.

In 2004 there were seven million people living alone in Britain, nearly four times as many as in 1961, according to relationship research organisation One Plus One. And, as Barbara Feldon pointed out in her bestselling book 'Living Alone and Loving It', there are tens of millions of people living alone in the world, many more than are living in nuclear families. As cultural perceptions shift, so do our expectations of coupledom and solitude. Meanwhile, as divorce rates rise, and the two-parent family declines, the traditional view of marriage as the most desirable state has been thrown into question.

The positive outcome? Being single and proud has finally been accepted as a viable life choice. The downside is that many of us feel more confused than ever. On the one hand there is the idealised life of the carefree, independent woman, yet we still grow up conditioned by fairytales, classic novels and Hollywood movies to believe that 'happy ever after' means happily married. So is there an answer to this uniquely modern debate? Which is better for your long-term happiness and mental health, being single or being part of a couple?

For Rachel, 47, a teacher from Nottingham whose 12-year marriage ended in 2000, the benefits of being single are obvious. 'I'm much happier when I'm independent. I can make my own decisions, I don't have to compromise: I can go on a last-minute weekend to Paris with friends, or decide to leave my job tomorrow and travel around India. I don't have to answer to anyone.'

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Certainly, research suggests that single women enjoy themselves and cope better psychologically than single men. Some of the most recent research, carried out in 2004 by the University of London and published in 'The Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health', surveyed 4,000 men and women under the age of 65. It concluded that women who remain single throughout most of their lives display good mental health compared to married women, while the happiness gap between single and married men is much more pronounced. Yet women were more adversely affected by moving in and out of several relationships, leading some researchers to speculate that single women are happiest if they stay single, rather than if they have many short-term relationships.

However, the majority of research has found that, for both men and women, the most beneficial state in terms of physical and psychological wellbeing, financial gain and longevity, is marriage. A recent survey by Professor Andrew Oswald, who has written widely on the 'economics of happiness', likened the benefits of marriage on our mental health to the equivalent of an annual cash injection of ?0,000. In terms of our physical health, he says, it gives as much of a boost as giving up smoking. His 2005 study on the subject concluded that those who are married earn more than single people, have better physical and psychological health, better longevity and reported happiness.

It would seem that the love, security and unconditional support of a long-term relationship is good for us. Nattavudh Powdthavee of the University of Warwick surveyed more than 9,000 people this year as part of the British Household Panel Survey, and concluded that there is also some sort of 'happiness by osmosis' in married relationships: 'When our partner becomes happier through something that does not affect our own happiness directly (a good day at work, for example), then we also become happier too (merely because he is happier with his life). The effects do not seem to vary with age or gender.'

The majority of research has found that, for both men and women, the most beneficial state in terms of physical and psychological wellbeing, financial gain and longevity, is marriage However, both of these studies found that cohabiting couples do not seem to reap the same benefits as married couples. One theory is that optimistic people tend to marry ?people who would have better physical and psychological health anyway. Another is that the difference lies in the tangible security offered by a marriage certificate.

But, according to Brett Kahr, a psychotherapist at the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships, researchers are missing the point when they focus on your significant other as the source of happiness and mental wellbeing. In fact, he argues, it wouldn't matter if it was a number of significant others ?what we need to be happy is that sense of security. 'We all have an inherent need for attachment,' he explains. 'We need people to take an interest in us, to look after us and to keep us in mind.' We need to feel we are the most important person to at least one other person. And what research is now hoping to uncover, he says, is whether single people can get the same level of attachment from a close friend, or group of friends, as a couple can get from each other.

For Kahr, what is important is not your outer state ?married or single ?but 'the kind of images, role models and internal figures you have in your head'. If these are positive and well-balanced representations of relationships, friendships and the other people in your life, you are more likely to be a happy person, regardless of whether you are married or not. If you carry contradictory, self-deprecating messages in your head ?'My parents divorced, therefore all marriages fail' or 'My partner gives me security, but I can't live without him' ?then you are more likely to be unhappy.

The important thing is not whether you actually possess what psychologists call a 'central relationship', but how healthily you relate to that person, or to being single, in your own mind. Kahr argues that it is possible to feel alone in a marriage, and fulfilled when single: neither the state of togetherness or that of solitude guarantees happiness. How you interpret the situation is key.

Susannah, a 36-year-old jeweller, says her friends would call her 'happily married', but admits that she doesn't always feel that way. 'When my husband is around I feel like we're a contented, secure couple. But he goes away on business for weeks on end, leaving me feeling frustrated and lonely. Sometimes I wonder whether the good times outweigh the bad.'

Janet Reibstein, psychologist and author of 'The Best Kept Secret: Men and Women's Stories of Lasting Love' (?2.99, Bloomsbury), says the positive thing about relationships is that they tend to give us a safe base from which to explore the rest of the world. Single people usually don't have this, she argues. When they do ?by cultivating a select network of friends ?it is a real fight for them to maintain the secure structure that automatically exists in a stable couple: 'I think single people can create substitute situations, but they have to work at it constantly.'

This does not mean, however, that all people in relationships are by definition happier than singles. 'We don't want to get down to a simplistic equation where we are saying that being in a couple is better than not being in one,' says Reibstein. 'Because being in the wrong couple can destroy your sense of security, especially if you're in a frustrating relationship where you are always seeking and not getting.'

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This is where we come down to the happiness hierarchy: asking whether we're better off in a couple or single is a bit like asking whether a mother is the best person to look after a child, says Reibstein. Of course the optimum carer for a child is its mother (just as relationships are the optimum state for humans). But this doesn't mean that the child wouldn't be equally well looked after by other carers (singles have just as many chances at happiness, providing they create strong networks of support that imitate partnership).

If we are going to play good, better, best: a happy partnership (and, in fact, the socially recognised form of marriage) is statistically best, but happy singledom can be equally fulfilling. Next comes miserable singledom. But the worst condition, it seems, is an unhappy relationship.

Ultimately, the experts agree, mental wellbeing comes down to your attitude to life, which may be influenced by your marital status (or lack thereof), but is not exclusively defined by it. If you tend to assume that the grass is always greener ?if you're married and envy your single friends, for example, then you're less likely to be satisfied. 'If you are settled, you do not have anxieties about your own deficiencies, as you might if you were unhappily single, or as you might about someone else's deficiences, in an unhappy relationship,' says Reibstein.

A key psychological definition of happiness is a willingness to explore life, to maintain curiosity and be alive to new experiences. While single life allows greater freedom to do this, a long-term, doubt-free relationship gives many people a level of confidence and openness to life they may otherwise lack. Each state has its unique benefits, so perhaps even asking the question of who is happier ?therefore dwelling on what lies on the other side of the fence ?makes us less happy. Perhaps we should focus not on what we lack, but on what we can gain from the situation we find ourselves in.

Ⅲ 怎样摆脱单身

我觉得吧一伴蛮出色的

Ⅳ 大学毕业之后怎么才能摆脱单身

平常心，你什么也不缺，你能跟她们上同一所大学，就是证明

Ⅳ 急求一篇用比较手法写的关于单身和结婚的好处英语短文,大概高中水平就OK，希望各位高手帮忙，万分感谢!!!

the best way to be single is you will have such freedom.(单身最大的好处是自由）
and the good thing of marriage is you are not along anymore, there are always have some one stay with you and so close to you. （结婚的好处在于你从此不再孤单，总是有一个人在你身边并如此的贴近你）
自己写的，希望有用

Ⅵ 怎么摆脱单身怎么脱单最快

在如今这个择偶标准迅速攀高的年代，不少年轻人或是止步于恋爱的巨大物资投入，或是畏惧于婚后生活的乏味与枷锁；最终使得他们放弃竞争和追求，变得安逸于自由独身的现状。止步不前不会解决问题，今天我就将向大家分享脱离单身的一些经验，希望可以让你重燃对于美好爱情的向往。
正视自我，首先，我建议大家先对自己发问，自己是否真正的渴望爱情，亦或是把恋爱当成一种任务，甚至是满足欲望的游戏；如果是的话，自己又因为什么原因一直处于单身的状态；是因为金钱、家庭还是性格；自我审视是摆脱单身的第一步，我们首先要对自己的大致情况有一个基本的认知。因为爱情不是游戏，一旦脱离单身，就意味着你需要对另一方负责，你需要明白自己有哪些资源可以为你们两人关系进一步发展所用，哪些会成为你们之间的阻碍；做好思想准备能更好的为你摆脱单身服务。
培养自信心，大多数年轻人不想主动脱离单身的一大原因就是因为种种因素认为自己丧失了择偶竞争力；然而事实并非如此，他们太过于低估自己的能力，这一切根本原因就是因为自信心的丧失。一定要克服自悲的心态，不要过度的放大自己的劣势和痛苦，尝试显露出自身自信和开朗的一面，总体上给人以一个善于沟通、为人处事自信大方的形象，对于脱离单身会有很大的帮助。

Ⅶ 如何摆脱大学期间单身带来的寂寞

要么好好学习多读书充实自己 要么找个男朋友或女朋友摆脱单身 再不然就是认识更多朋友丰富自己的生活

Ⅷ 对于单身的人来讲，应该怎么脱离单身呢

到了结婚论嫁的年龄，如何脱单也就是成了某些年轻人的主要目标。那么如何脱单，用什么方式比较好呢？为了帮助大家能够过上幸福的生活，小编就自己的经验为大家介绍一些方法。

第三点，要专一，这一点其实是非常重要的，尽管大家都是在选择，但是如果一旦找到适合自己的，就不要三心二意，继续的挑挑拣拣。因为，这个社会你会发现，总是会有比你现在更好的存在，也就是一山还比一山高。最后，你也许会一直挑下去。最终，在追逐中走到孤独终老。另外，尤其是女孩子，都是对专一的人，情有独钟。俗话说得好“好女怕缠郎”，说的其实就是专一性。“非你不去，非他不嫁”这句誓言在感情的世界里可以直击心扉。

以上介绍，就是小编为大家介绍的如何摆脱单身的方法，希望能够帮助大家早日走向婚姻的殿堂。共同为人类的繁荣做出贡献。

Ⅸ 怎么摆脱单身🐶

最高的境界是，不要去追人，要让人来追你！也就是说让自己变得有吸引力！
自信！有魅力，懂化点淡妆，穿衣服有气质，办事利索，乐于助人！等等，有问题不懂电聊！